the size doesn't matter theory

hmmm...got your attention with that title huh? so i always hear women say "size doesn't matter"...that's somewhat fact...somewhat fiction. the problem that i have personally ran into is that usually men that are well endowed...don't give a fuck because they think having a big willy is enough to get a woman off...um...it's not fellas...it really is not. they think because it's big that they don't have to participate in any kind of foreplay or cuninlingus. now some women don't like receiving oral...but not any that i'm friends with. i always say...don't trust a woman that doesn't like oral sex. usually the lack of enthusiasm for oral sex on a womans part is just self esteem or body issues (just sayin...from what i've seen). then on the other side of that spectrum is the men that are not endowed at all...they are usually pro's at the foreplay/cuninlingus game. why is it so unfair??? small penis = great guy...big penis = douchebag city...but every so often you meet someone that is just good in all departments (it's a rare finding...but they do exist). then we have the old wive's tale of black men being well hung and white men not...now from my personal experience...it's all bullshit. i've seen some of the smallest black penis's...you would think i was dating a toddler. and those white boys can be packin'...just sayin. when a woman is really into a man and he's really into her...all that other stuff goes out the door because there is usually a mutual want to please one another and you make it work with what you have in front of you. women are emotional creatures so sometimes the emotions or feelings that are present can make a sexual experience greater than any ol' big dick. so...on that note...it's not the size of the package...but how it's delivered...unless they turn out to be a complete asshole...because best believe the first thing a woman will say to hurt that man is how small his penis is...it's just where we know we can hurt a man the most. ~may