you don't like it...then don't watch!!!

moving on is hard to do and sometimes we stay in relationships longer than we should for the simple fear of having to move on. after being in one destructive relationship for so long we go through a period of rebellion as if we are teenagers all over again. that newfound freedom is like an implosion. we've been contained and confined in the walls of that relationship for so long that when it's over we just need to go wild. it results in some choices that are at times frowned upon by people that have no room to judge unless they've been through it in their own lives. one night stands...drinking excessively...staying out all night and partying...these are all things that some of us turn to when we are hurt or confused. but one thing i will say is that we are damn good mothers and when it comes to our kids...they come first and foremost. these men find it hard to believe that we don't want relationships or to "tie them down"...but who wants to start something new with all the turmoil that comes with ending a relationship that has lasted through all of the growing up that the 20's bring. this is our 20's! that little window of time that most people have to themselves to live a single life and get it all out of their system. those of us that marry young and have kids young...we never had that so fuck it...it's our turn bitches! you don't like it...then don't watch and keep your opinions to yourself. who the fuck made you god???